Introducing a cat to a dog can be tricky, but peaceful relationships are possible. The pets should be suitably matched, and their owner must have patience and realistic expectations—including an understanding that the relationship may never work. The best way to introduce a cat to a dog is with gradual, controlled exposures that prioritize both pets’ safety and emotions.

Realistic expectations about cats and dogs

You may be intrigued by the idea of odd animal pairings, and assume that as long as both pets are friendly, they’ll be friendly with each other. However, animals are individuals, with their own preferences and opinions about the definition of friendship. Here are some important points about introducing dogs and cats in the real world.

Be reasonable—you can’t force pet friendship

Erase any dreamy images you have of your dog instantly bonding with your new cat. While many cats and dogs can get along well, fuzzy—pun intended—ideals can cloud your judgement and you can miss pet stress during the introduction process. This may put your cat in danger, so for their safety, be aware of the following:

• Some dogs cannot live with cats.
• Patience and flexibility are essential.
• “Cat-friendly” is not a universal trait—your dog may react differently to some cats, or to the same cat in a different environment.
• If at any point the dog or cat shows fear or aggression, you must step back in the training.
• Rushing the process can result in the cat’s injury or death.
• Each dog in a multi-dog home must be introduced and trained individually.
• Proper introductions can take hours, days, weeks, or months.

Be selective—pair pets with similar traits and energy levels

When you’re searching for an adoptable cat, look for dog-friendly felines whose personality is compatible with your dog. In general, successful pairings will share a similar demeanor, energy level, and disposition. For example, elderly and laid-back dogs pair well with calm cats, while rough-playing dogs may accidentally harm or kill kittens and senior cats.

If permitted, take your dog to the shelter to meet potential cats. Keep your dog leashed and across the room at all times, and closely observe their body language while someone else monitors the cat. Initial reactions can provide valuable information about the likelihood for an amicable relationship. Separate the pets if you witness any red-flag behaviors, including: 

• Intense, fixed staring
• Lunging, intense barking, or whining
• Tense body language 
• Aggressive behavior 
• Excessively fearful cats

These behaviors may indicate that a particular cat is not suitable for your dog, and if your dog repeatedly displays inappropriate behavior with different cats, adoption is not advised. Ideally, a properly matched cat and dog will be curious but relaxed with each other. 

Set up a safe environment for your new cat

Your new cat will spend the initial introductory stages confined to a small or medium-sized room, to allow both pets to adjust to the others’ presence without confrontation. Cat-proof the room by removing electrical cords, breakable items, house plants, and curtains, and provide essential resources, including a litter box, food, water, toys, a cozy bed, scratching post, and elevated hiding places. 

Put your cat in their room as soon as you arrive home, and allow them to explore at their own pace. Give them 12 to 24 hours to settle in before beginning any introductions.

Three ways to introduce a cat to a dog

Cat-to-dog introductions should be carefully planned. Never allow pets to “figure it out” on their own, as this can lead to significant fear, stress, anxiety, and severe injury.

Selecting the right approach depends largely on the pets’ personalities and learning history. Friendly, well-socialized pets will acclimate to each other more quickly than an overexcitable dog or a shy cat. Review all three methods and choose the one that best suits your situation, but don’t be afraid to change tactics or use a combination if things aren’t progressing well. 

#1: Introduce your pets using a barrier

With your cat safely in their room, begin by feeding your pets simultaneously on either side of the door. Having a friend or family member feed the cat while you feed your dog can be helpful. Observe both pets’ behavior, to determine their comfort level. Relaxed and confident pets will show:

• A soft expression
• Forward facing ears
• Normal pupils
• Loose body carriage (i.e., not tense)
• A gently wagging tail in dogs
  

Pets may sniff one another underneath the door, but if your dog gets too excited, leash them, and sit further away from the door. Repeat this process several times per day, keeping interactions short and positive. 

Swap pet spaces and scents

As pets begin to relax, you can swap their spaces. Confine your dog to the cat’s room and allow the cat to explore more of your home. This switch helps both pets learn the other’s scent, without feeling threatened.

Let pets see each other

If the pets continue to stay calm, switch to a see-through barrier, such as a baby gate or glass door, and repeat the steps above until the pets lose interest in each other. If achieved, you can transition straight to method three.

#2: Introduce an overly excited dog with the engage-disengage game

Dogs who are easily excited or over-aroused by the cat cannot think clearly, and must be taught how to “self-interrupt” to reduce their stress. The engage-disengage game teaches dogs to calm down by looking away from the trigger (i.e., the cat) to receive a reward. Over time, the trigger’s presence becomes a predictor of good things, and the stress is neutralized. 

Rules of engagement

This approach is a more structured introduction that many young and energetic dogs need. Don’t worry—it’s fun, and easy to learn! 

• With your dog leashed, stand on one side of the cat’s barrier. 
• Start far enough away that your dog can respond when you tell them “Sit” or “Down,” and your cat does not become frightened.
• When your dog notices the cat, say “Yes” or “Good,” and immediately offer a treat. You may have to put the treat right in front of your dog’s nose, but they will learn to look to you for the reward.
• Repeat three to five times.
• Then, when they look at the cat, stay quiet. If they turn to look at you, say “Yes” or “Good” and reward them. You’re now reinforcing your dog for breaking their stare, and reorienting to you.
• When both pets are relaxed, you can gradually move closer to the barrier.

Look at me—no wait, don’t look at me

Once your dog can glance calmly at the cat—or stops noticing the cat altogether—you can feel comfortable moving to controlled interactions. Be prepared, however, that dogs don’t generalize behavior, meaning that your cat may look entirely different in the living room than in the spare bedroom. Review the engage-disengage game any time the environment changes, to avoid a setback.

#3: Introducing pets through controlled interactions

Controlled interactions may be the only method needed for easy-going cats and dogs, or the final step after successfully working through the other two methods. 

Leash your dog, and have a helper sit with your cat on the floor or a couch at a safe distance. The helper will not restrain the cat, who controls this situation, and can hide or leave at any time. If the cat becomes frightened at any point, you must go back to your earlier work, and rebuild their confidence.

Friends equal food

As with the barrier method, treat both pets for demonstrating any general interest, and for disengaging. Keep sessions short and calm, and stay at this level until both pets are relaxed and happy sharing a space together. 

Look what I can do

Ask your dog for simple control behaviors, including sit, down, and stay, while the cat is moving around the room, or play the engage-disengage game to encourage positive focus. Remember, a freely roaming cat will be a new challenge for your dog, so be patient! 

Pets with privileges

Over time, you can increase your dog’s freedom with a longer leash, and eventually no leash, but always with close  supervision. At this point, the cat and dog should have little interest in one another—that’s a good thing!

Total freedom takes time

You may be tempted to lift all restrictions as soon as your cat and dog adapt, but don’t rush this last step. Keep pets separated or confined when you are not at home, until you are completely confident that your cat will be safe.

When to consult a pet behavior professional

Most dogs and cats can learn to accept one another, but if introductions do not go well, you must seek professional help. You may need to return the cat to the shelter, for their safety. 

When conflicting pets must learn to coexist (e.g., two pet owners moving in together), professional guidance is essential. Your veterinarian can make recommendations, or may refer you to a veterinary behaviorist. 

Introducing kittens to dogs

Curious kittens may not fear dogs, which can lead to unfortunate endings. Dogs can easily harm their small, fragile bodies—unintentionally or otherwise—as their size and erratic movement can look like prey. When introducing a kitten to an adult dog or large puppy, begin with controlled exposures to prevent accidentally terrifying the kitten. Prioritize safety at all times, and supervise all interactions until the kitten is fully grown.

Fighting Loving like cats and dogs

Properly introducing a cat to a dog may seem time-consuming. But when done correctly, you eliminate the long-term risks of inter-pet fighting, behavioral problems, stress-related health issues, and physical injury or death. A few days, weeks, or months of carefully orchestrated and supervised interactions are well worth the peace of mind—and super cute photo ops—when two pets coexist without conflict.

Hidden health conditions, including pain or illness, may prevent your pets from bonding—VetVet can help you find a local knowledgeable veterinarian who can ensure both pets are sound, and ready to socialize.

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https://www.dacvb.org/page/AnimalOwners. American College of Veterinary Behaviorists. 2021.